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     Preface         The premise that Sons to Dads is built upon
A Son's Reflection
Changing Roles
Kangaroo Care
Hiccup Cure
Taking Care of Mom is Taking Care of Baby
Breast Feeding
Bottle Feeding
Burping
Nesting
Packed and Ready To Go?

SONS to DADS

A Transition Guide just for Dads

 

An excerpt from

Taking Care of Mom is Taking Care of Baby

 

TAKING CARE OF MOM IS TAKING CARE OF YOUR BABY!  However, you won't put the baby to suckle.
 

You must make sure mom retains her health, by ensuring that she is well nourished, well hydrated, and well rested. A nursing mom should take in up to 600 additional calories per day, similar to when she was pregnant. In today's world, a man does not have to be a chef, such as Emeril Lagasse or Wolfgang Puck, to prepare a nice meal. Take a trip to the supermarket with mom (I know, I hate pushing the shopping cart too) and find out what she would normally like to have. Become familiar with the kitchen, including where things are, so you won't need to bug her while she is resting. The fact is, both of you need to maintain yourselves by eating right. However, if she fails to maintain her strength, you will soon see that she is tired and fatigues very quickly (i.e. cranky, crying, stress). The baby will get what he needs while mom will be the one that suffers.

Mom needs at least six-eight glasses of water a day. Help her to do this by keeping fresh water or juice by her chair or bedside. Also, remind her to "drink-up", but don't be pushy. There is a fine line between encouragement and being overbearing.

You can tell if your baby is getting enough to eat by counting wet and soiled diapers. Your baby should have one wet diaper/soiled within the first 24 hours after delivery; two wet/soiled on the second and third day of life; three wet/soiled the third day and progress to six-eight wet diapers and two-five soiled diaper per 24 hours after the mature milk comes in.  Knowing the difference between a wet diaper and a dry diaper may seem difficult the first few times. Take the time and hold a new diaper in one hand and the soiled diaper in the other. This will help you to understand the difference in weight.
 

 

 

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