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     Preface         The premise that Sons to Dads is built upon
A Son's Reflection
Changing Roles
Kangaroo Care
Hiccup Cure
Taking Care of Mom is Taking Care of Baby
Breast Feeding
Bottle Feeding
Burping
Nesting
Packed and Ready To Go?

SONS to DADS

A Transition Guide just for Dads

 

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Packed and Ready To Go?

“Be prepared,” is the Boys Scout motto.   Moreover, it is a good motto for you, the new father. The nursery is complete; the living area is clean as can be.  What else do you need?  Plan for tomorrow, for tomorrow will surely come sooner than you can imagine.   

Mom is not the only one that is going to spending hours or days in the hospital.  Make a list of all the things the two of you will need.  Some of the best-laid plans leave out the simplest items.  Not tooth brushes, or clean underwear; but, cameras!  Too often couples show up at the Labor and Delivery department all ready, with nothing to record the event with.

Have your cameras ready, new batters, extra film, video cameras charge and packed.  (Just to mention few of the common mistakes dads often make.)  Nurses can do a lot for you before, during and after the delivery; yet, not one has yet mastered all of the different types, kinds, makes and models of cameras that people bring for the big day.  Digital cameras, very complicated auto/manual adjust cameras, camcorders; lights, camera, “Action.” It is a major production.  At some point in time, you will ask the nurse, “Would you take a picture of us, all three of us together.”   So, keep it simple, (KISS.)  Sure, bring your entire camera collection, and click away.  In addition, I suggest, you pack two simple, disposable cameras.  But, before you pack them away; on a clean sheet of paper, using a good size magic marker, print your name, address and telephone number and take the first shot of it with each of the two cameras.  If your film were misplaced, during the “one-hour processing,” you will have a very good chance of having them returned to you.  No way can you replace all of those pictures.  The day after delivery mom will be asking all kinds of question. “Then what happened?”  And, “What did the baby look like then?”  Whatever the subject, you will have the complete history in pictures ready to answer all her questions.

 

 

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